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Have you ever thought to yourself, “My sex life would be so much better if my partner was a just little more/less _________”? Yes, you have. It’s happened. Human beings are all unique, with all sorts of physical and psychological variations that aren’t always ideal for the ultimate sex life. Don’t despair, however! Technology has brought us leaps and bounds forward in the search for sexual pleasure. Sex toys are no longer limited to cheap, plastic, phallic-shaped things. There is a wide variety of fun, useful products designed to improve our personal, loving sex lives and strengthen our relationships. So if the man of your dreams just happens to be a little under par in the size department, or you find yourself wanting more than he can give, it doesn’t mean you can’t have ultimately satisfying sex. Read on

 

Problem 1: “He’s too small”
There are a few solutions to this problem, if indeed this is a problem at all. Many men who are below average size-wise have learned to use other parts of their body to their partner’s grateful benefit. But if his little guy just isn’t satisfying you, there are quite a few things to try. First, try different positions: let him take you from behind while you squeeze your legs together, or lie on your back with your knees at your chest and your feet over his shoulders. These positions allow deeper penetration, tighten your vaginal canal and increase sensation for both of you. You can also have him try a penis enhancer. These come in all sizes and shapes to lengthen, thicken, support, and satisfy whatever need you both may have. Third, work your PC muscles. A good set of Smartballs, an updated version of Ben-Wa balls, will strengthen and tighten your internal muscles. With your vaginal muscles primed and toned, you’ll be amazed at how much more you’ll feel during hot sex.

 

Problem 2: “He’s too big”
Sorry to disillusion you, guys, but bigger isn’t always better. A huge member doesn’t always guarantee pleasure; it can often cause pain for women with tight or short vaginal canals. The best solution to this problem is lots of foreplay! Spend lots of time getting her excited using your hands or mouth. When she’s ready, slather on a healthy dollop of lubricant and ease in slowly. Silicone-based lubes tend to work best for easing the friction of a tight fit. If he’s really long, try a set of penis donuts. These fit tightly at the base of the penis so he’ll still receive stimulation, but they’re wide enough keep him from going further in than she’s comfortable with. Some positions to try: her on top, so she’s in complete control of penetration and speed. Side-by-side also limits how deeply he can penetrate.

 

Problem 3: “He wants it all the time”
If your partner is always after you for sex, and you’re never “in the mood,” you may be setting yourself up for some serious long-term relationship problems. Try not to think of this as his problem; there are a number of solutions you can enact that can directly affect you. Some things to try:
*Make sure you’re keeping a healthy sleep schedule Not enough sleep leads to a reduction in testosterone, the hormone that gives you a healthy libido.
*Take active responsibility for your sex drive Figure out what turns you on, don’t leave it to your partner to guess. When you pinpoint what gets you in the mood, do it often, share it with your partner, whatever it takes to enjoy yourself.
*Identify and work out issues with your body image The better you feel about your body, the more likely you are to enjoy sex. This may require a getting a gym membership or scheduling counseling.
*Initiate sex, even if you’re not in the mood By taking the reigns, you take control of the situation, which can be a major turn-on for you. You don’t even have to go all the way. Oral sex or even manual stimulation will make your partner equally grateful, and can rev up your own lagging libido.
*Fantasize Let your body and mind get in the mood without the pressure of having to perform or please someone else. Find a fun vibrator or other toy help you enjoy your alone time. The more you exercise your libido, the healthier it’ll become.

 

Problem 4: “He doesn’t want it as much as I do”
Biology has set us up for a cruel trick: as we age, a woman’s sex drive goes up while a man’s libido starts to fall behind. While many women fear this is because they have become less appealing to their partners, in most cases, this couldn’t be further from the truth. Here are some things you can do to help yourself out:
*Masturbate When you need to take the edge off, close the door, turn on some music, and spend some quality time with your favorite rabbit vibrator.
*Make sure it’s sex you’re after Identify whether you’re actually craving sex, or if you’re looking for love, intimacy, affection, or a stress-reducer. There are other ways of receiving these without depending on sex.
*Know your partner’s appetites Learn what turns him on and off. Explore all the options of the things they enjoy, broaden your repertoire of sexual knowledge, and be sure to mix it up. A simple sex swing can make your sex lives seem brand new again.
*Utilize the quickie Sex doesn’t always have to be an hour-long excursion. Use lots of lubricant and make the most of whatever time you have.

Take an active role in improving your sexual happiness, and you’ll find that you both benefit. Life changes over time, and your wants and needs will forwever be fluctuating, so be sure to communicate, work through whatever issues you may have together, and don’t be afraid to try new things. Satisfaction comes to those who work at it!

 

Overcoming Shyness With The Opposite Sex – Tell Me More

 

Overcoming Shyness With The Opposite Sex – Tell Me More

Are you of a timid nature when it comes down to meeting the opposite sex, does your shyness prevent you going a step further at the introduction of your possible first date.
There are ways to rid obstacles which are stopping you moving forward in overcoming shyness with the opposite sex. A good way to start is to face up to your self. If an opportunity arises where interest is shown towards you then do something fast you maybe letting your future husband or wife slip through your fingers all because of the world of silence that holds you hostage

If you want to make it possible to handle situations that involves your presence in company then so be it. Practice being another person to overcome your shyness. This person can be a famous film star or Joe Bloggs from next door. By imitating the habits of others may help you break the barrier that is holding you back. Just remember that if and when contact comes between you and the opposite sex you have to end the pretence.

 

Face up to your fears by interrogating your self by asking questions as to why you are shy. The first step is to build up confidence and by doing this you may just claim self satisfaction in being able to put yourself out there and mingle with the rest. There is a lot of help and guidance out there in the way of books to help with your confidence building to overcome your shyness around the opposite sex.

Positive thinking on your part will be beneficial when asking for a date or how to handle the date you are with. Confidence is the sure way to abolish shyness and have hot sex.

 

Start to change a few things about your self to boost your self worth, how about considering a new image where hairstyles and clothes are replaced. This alone will give a great satisfying feeling before you go out on the pull – so as to speak.

Conversation plays an important role when trying to attract the opposite sex – make what ever you have to say interesting or better still let your partner do the talking. Great listeners become great companions down the line.

Shyness is a powerful force that can turn your whole life upside down by not allowing you to say what you feel or do what you want to do. Well it is time to put a stop to that whether it be pulling the opposite sex or just getting on with your life.
Life is all about challenges so why not challenge yourself to a duel with the perpetrator who is holding you back – who might that be you ask. YOU OF COURSE.

 

Have you ever wanted to say to some one how stunning they look or that you found them very attractive? Remember the challenge factor go out and express these sayings to a stranger if need be and watch there actions – maybe a little startled at first but warmly welcoming your compliment. So remember the familiar face you have been attracted to for some time will gladly listen to what you have to say. Everyone loves to be complimented.

 

If rejection is behind your fear of coming forward then hold up – surely you have experienced rejection in other departments so what is the difference. If your brother/sister says you can not lend this or that – or the boss says no to extra holiday pay. These are all rejection matters so if you can handle them – then surely being turned down by the opposite sex shouldn`t matter.

The opposite sex to whom you are attracted too may also be shy – so it is up to you to take control and make the first move. Another way of overcoming your shyness is to admit it right from the beginning. Explain that you are not comfortable with the direct brash approach – and by doing this the person opposite you will have insight to the honest person who they are about to date.

If you feel you are not quite ready to do the talking then call in the Matckmaking agency to do the talking for you.